{"id":20038,"date":"2022-02-25T11:56:38","date_gmt":"2022-02-25T03:56:38","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.hometeamns.sg\/frontline\/?p=20038"},"modified":"2022-07-22T10:49:39","modified_gmt":"2022-07-22T02:49:39","slug":"becoming-a-family-man","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.hometeamns.sg\/frontline\/becoming-a-family-man\/","title":{"rendered":"Becoming a family man"},"content":{"rendered":"\t\t<div data-elementor-type=\"wp-post\" data-elementor-id=\"20038\" class=\"elementor elementor-20038\" data-elementor-post-type=\"post\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-d9637c5 elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default wpr-particle-no wpr-jarallax-no wpr-parallax-no wpr-sticky-section-no\" data-id=\"d9637c5\" data-element_type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-17066cb\" data-id=\"17066cb\" data-element_type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-41dfdb9 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"41dfdb9\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p><em><strong>CPT (NS) Muhd Saufi bin Abdul Rashid on marriage and starting a family of his own helped him view life from a fresh perspective.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-35e33f8 elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default wpr-particle-no wpr-jarallax-no wpr-parallax-no wpr-sticky-section-no\" data-id=\"35e33f8\" data-element_type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-3a91601\" data-id=\"3a91601\" data-element_type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-2a34424 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"2a34424\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p>TEXT: KEENAN PEREIRA<\/p><p>PHOTOS: CPT (NS) MUHD SAUFI BIN ABDUL RASHID<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-d288c14 elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default wpr-particle-no wpr-jarallax-no wpr-parallax-no wpr-sticky-section-no\" data-id=\"d288c14\" data-element_type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-32fa148\" data-id=\"32fa148\" data-element_type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-081f823 elementor-widget elementor-widget-video\" data-id=\"081f823\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-settings=\"{&quot;youtube_url&quot;:&quot;https:\\\/\\\/youtu.be\\\/oEewhyz9Nbo&quot;,&quot;autoplay&quot;:&quot;yes&quot;,&quot;play_on_mobile&quot;:&quot;yes&quot;,&quot;loop&quot;:&quot;yes&quot;,&quot;video_type&quot;:&quot;youtube&quot;,&quot;controls&quot;:&quot;yes&quot;}\" data-widget_type=\"video.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-wrapper elementor-open-inline\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-video\"><\/div>\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-f29efc2 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"f29efc2\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p>\u00a0<\/p><p>For many, the year-end season is a period to slow down and spend time with family and friends. However, CPT (NS) Muhd Saufi bin Abdul Rashid\u2019s work in the medical technologies sector brought him to Switzerland in December 2021 for a month, away from his wife and their three-year-old son. \u201cI missed my family! What\u2019s worse, my son kept asking my wife \u2018Where is daddy?\u2019 and why I wasn\u2019t home yet,\u201d shares the 32-year-old<em>.<\/em><\/p><p>For those who know CPT (NS) Saufi from his national service days, this might sound like an out-of-character statement, because he never expected to be a family man.<\/p><p>After all, he describes himself as being the \u201cjoker\u201d of the Special Rescue Unit, where he was a platoon commander during his fulltime NS stint. Despite his rank, he was always ready to cheer up those around him with a joke \u2014 if the time and situation allowed for it, of course. \u201cI didn\u2019t think this would change,\u201d he reflects.<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-75594a3 elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default wpr-particle-no wpr-jarallax-no wpr-parallax-no wpr-sticky-section-no\" data-id=\"75594a3\" data-element_type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-eff4e4d\" data-id=\"eff4e4d\" data-element_type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-d258729 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"d258729\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p><strong>A FRESH PERSPECTIVE ON LIFE<\/strong><\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-691344d elementor-widget elementor-widget-image\" data-id=\"691344d\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"image.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<figure class=\"wp-caption\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<img fetchpriority=\"high\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"2560\" height=\"1440\" src=\"https:\/\/www.hometeamns.sg\/frontline\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/Saufi_new_2c-scaled.jpg\" class=\"attachment-full size-full wp-image-20136\" alt=\"\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.hometeamns.sg\/frontline\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/Saufi_new_2c-scaled.jpg 2560w, https:\/\/www.hometeamns.sg\/frontline\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/Saufi_new_2c-300x169.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.hometeamns.sg\/frontline\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/Saufi_new_2c-1024x576.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/www.hometeamns.sg\/frontline\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/Saufi_new_2c-768x432.jpg 768w, https:\/\/www.hometeamns.sg\/frontline\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/Saufi_new_2c-1536x864.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/www.hometeamns.sg\/frontline\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/Saufi_new_2c-2048x1152.jpg 2048w, https:\/\/www.hometeamns.sg\/frontline\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/Saufi_new_2c-1200x675.jpg 1200w, https:\/\/www.hometeamns.sg\/frontline\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/Saufi_new_2c-1980x1114.jpg 1980w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 2560px) 100vw, 2560px\" \/>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<figcaption class=\"widget-image-caption wp-caption-text\">CPT (NS) Saufi says that his parents' lifelong encouragement helped him keep faith in his abilities.<\/figcaption>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/figure>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-cbb9e20 elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default wpr-particle-no wpr-jarallax-no wpr-parallax-no wpr-sticky-section-no\" data-id=\"cbb9e20\" data-element_type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-e2e802d\" data-id=\"e2e802d\" data-element_type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-98fd3f6 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"98fd3f6\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p>But change he did, after meeting his wife of five years and having their first child three years ago. \u201cThey completely transformed my perspective on life. I realised I had to get serious about things, such as getting a house, doing well in my career and being the best version of me. I wasn\u2019t living for myself anymore; I had a family to care for and who depend on me.\u201d<\/p><p>Fortunately, it was an effortless transition. That\u2019s because CPT (NS) Saufi had \u201clived singlehood to the fullest\u201d. Any sport you name, he is likely to have played it, be it badminton or archery tag. \u201cI also took part in various cultural activities, like <em>dikir barat<\/em> (a style of Malay choral singing) and even lion dance,\u201d he says.<\/p><p>With so many endeavours under his belt, it\u2019s no wonder CPT (NS) Saufi is happy to give as much time as he has to his family. He tells <em>Frontline<\/em> that he hopes his brood will grow in the coming year. \u201cIdeally, I\u2019ll want two more children to complete the set,\u201d he quips.<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-4ec192f elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default wpr-particle-no wpr-jarallax-no wpr-parallax-no wpr-sticky-section-no\" data-id=\"4ec192f\" data-element_type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-5b948e1\" data-id=\"5b948e1\" data-element_type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-8a4eb93 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"8a4eb93\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p><strong>COMMITTED AND CARING<\/strong><\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-7671152 elementor-widget elementor-widget-image\" data-id=\"7671152\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"image.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<figure class=\"wp-caption\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<img decoding=\"async\" width=\"1920\" height=\"1079\" src=\"https:\/\/www.hometeamns.sg\/frontline\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/Close-Up-SCDF_Saufi_new_1_edit2_resized.jpg\" class=\"attachment-full size-full wp-image-20461\" alt=\"\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.hometeamns.sg\/frontline\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/Close-Up-SCDF_Saufi_new_1_edit2_resized.jpg 1920w, https:\/\/www.hometeamns.sg\/frontline\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/Close-Up-SCDF_Saufi_new_1_edit2_resized-300x169.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.hometeamns.sg\/frontline\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/Close-Up-SCDF_Saufi_new_1_edit2_resized-1024x575.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/www.hometeamns.sg\/frontline\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/Close-Up-SCDF_Saufi_new_1_edit2_resized-768x432.jpg 768w, https:\/\/www.hometeamns.sg\/frontline\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/Close-Up-SCDF_Saufi_new_1_edit2_resized-1536x863.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/www.hometeamns.sg\/frontline\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/Close-Up-SCDF_Saufi_new_1_edit2_resized-1200x674.jpg 1200w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1920px) 100vw, 1920px\" \/>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<figcaption class=\"widget-image-caption wp-caption-text\">CPT (NS) Saufi (left) was a platoon commander in the SCDF's Special Rescue Unit during his fulltime NS stint (This photo was taken before the COVID-19 pandemic).<\/figcaption>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/figure>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-7ef041f elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default wpr-particle-no wpr-jarallax-no wpr-parallax-no wpr-sticky-section-no\" data-id=\"7ef041f\" data-element_type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-de9fa78\" data-id=\"de9fa78\" data-element_type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-2ac0151 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"2ac0151\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p>CPT (NS) Saufi\u2019s commitment to his family\u2019s wellbeing is clear as he discusses his return to Singapore from Switzerland in early January. To protect his young one from COVID-19, he opted to stay at his parents\u2019 house for seven days upon his return, even though he had tested negative for the virus. \u201cMy son is too young to be vaccinated so I wanted to make sure he doesn\u2019t suffer needlessly, in case the virus manifested after I came back,\u201d he explains.<\/p><p>\u201cI did not video call him often when I was away because of the seven-hour time difference between Singapore and Switzerland. So it was quite a big sacrifice to have to be away from him for another week,\u201d says CPT (NS) Saufi. Still, he was determined to do \u201cwhat\u2019s right for (his) family\u201d.<\/p><p>As someone who had received great support from his parents throughout his life, CPT (NS) Saufi understands the strength of family bonds. Crucially, they encouraged him to forge his own path, motivating him to complete his Normal (Technical) education, enter the Institute of Technical Education and later, a polytechnic.<\/p><p>CPT (NS) Saufi went on to become an officer in the Singapore Civil Defence Force (SCDF). \u201cTheir encouragement reminded me that it\u2019s not about how far others say you can go; what\u2019s more important is how far you want to go. I owe so much to them,\u201d he says with gratitude.<\/p><p>CPT (NS) Saufi\u2019s striving for excellence continues to this day, both at work and in his role as an Officer Commanding (OC) of the 31 Rescue Battalion. For his strong and inspirational leadership, he was presented with the NSman of the Year Award in 2021. He cherishes this honour, but true to form, credits those around him for his success. \u201cI am who I am because of them.\u201d<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-bee1b77 elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default wpr-particle-no wpr-jarallax-no wpr-parallax-no wpr-sticky-section-no\" data-id=\"bee1b77\" data-element_type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-41759b4\" data-id=\"41759b4\" data-element_type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-e3a6e03 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"e3a6e03\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p><strong>FINDING BALANCE<\/strong><\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-2efb552 elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default wpr-particle-no wpr-jarallax-no wpr-parallax-no wpr-sticky-section-no\" data-id=\"2efb552\" data-element_type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-98ddfcc\" data-id=\"98ddfcc\" data-element_type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-734db38 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"734db38\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p>Like many young parents, CPT (NS) Saufi knows what it feels like to balance commitments to family, work and National Service. He currently works in the medical technologies industry, where he pulls 12-hour shifts.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cAfter a long day, I look forward to going home and spending time playing with my son and chatting with my wife,\u201d he says. CPT (NS) Saufi works a four-day week, giving him just enough time to also visit his parents, in-laws and, crucially, himself as well. \u201cSundays are my \u2018do-nothing\u2019 days, where my wife and I just watch Netflix or relax.\u201d<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>CPT (NS) Muhd Saufi bin Abdul Rashid on marriage and starting a family of his own helped him view life from a fresh perspective. TEXT: KEENAN PEREIRA PHOTOS: CPT (NS) MUHD SAUFI BIN ABDUL RASHID https:\/\/youtu.be\/oEewhyz9Nbo \u00a0 For many, the year-end season is a period to slow down and spend time with family and friends. However, CPT (NS) Muhd Saufi bin Abdul Rashid\u2019s work in the medical technologies sector brought him to Switzerland in December 2021 for a month, away from his wife and their three-year-old son. \u201cI missed my family! What\u2019s worse, my son kept asking my wife \u2018Where is daddy?\u2019 and why I wasn\u2019t home yet,\u201d shares the 32-year-old. For those who know CPT (NS) Saufi from his national service days, this might sound like an out-of-character statement, because he never expected to be a family man. After all, he describes himself as being the \u201cjoker\u201d of the Special Rescue Unit, where he was a platoon commander during his fulltime NS stint. Despite his rank, he was always ready to cheer up those around him with a joke \u2014 if the time and situation allowed for it, of course. \u201cI didn\u2019t think this would change,\u201d he reflects. A FRESH PERSPECTIVE ON LIFE CPT (NS) Saufi says that his parents&#8217; lifelong encouragement helped him keep faith in his abilities. But change he did, after meeting his wife of five years and having their first child three years ago. \u201cThey completely transformed my perspective on life. I realised I had to get serious about things, such as getting a house, doing well in my career and being the best version of me. I wasn\u2019t living for myself anymore; I had a family to care for and who depend on me.\u201d Fortunately, it was an effortless transition. That\u2019s because CPT (NS) Saufi had \u201clived singlehood to the fullest\u201d. Any sport you name, he is likely to have played it, be it badminton or archery tag. \u201cI also took part in various cultural activities, like dikir barat (a style of Malay choral singing) and even lion dance,\u201d he says. With so many endeavours under his belt, it\u2019s no wonder CPT (NS) Saufi is happy to give as much time as he has to his family. He tells Frontline that he hopes his brood will grow in the coming year. \u201cIdeally, I\u2019ll want two more children to complete the set,\u201d he quips. COMMITTED AND CARING CPT (NS) Saufi (left) was a platoon commander in the SCDF&#8217;s Special Rescue Unit during his fulltime NS stint (This photo was taken before the COVID-19 pandemic). CPT (NS) Saufi\u2019s commitment to his family\u2019s wellbeing is clear as he discusses his return to Singapore from Switzerland in early January. To protect his young one from COVID-19, he opted to stay at his parents\u2019 house for seven days upon his return, even though he had tested negative for the virus. \u201cMy son is too young to be vaccinated so I wanted to make sure he doesn\u2019t suffer needlessly, in case the virus manifested after I came back,\u201d he explains. \u201cI did not video call him often when I was away because of the seven-hour time difference between Singapore and Switzerland. So it was quite a big sacrifice to have to be away from him for another week,\u201d says CPT (NS) Saufi. Still, he was determined to do \u201cwhat\u2019s right for (his) family\u201d. As someone who had received great support from his parents throughout his life, CPT (NS) Saufi understands the strength of family bonds. Crucially, they encouraged him to forge his own path, motivating him to complete his Normal (Technical) education, enter the Institute of Technical Education and later, a polytechnic. CPT (NS) Saufi went on to become an officer in the Singapore Civil Defence Force (SCDF). \u201cTheir encouragement reminded me that it\u2019s not about how far others say you can go; what\u2019s more important is how far you want to go. I owe so much to them,\u201d he says with gratitude. CPT (NS) Saufi\u2019s striving for excellence continues to this day, both at work and in his role as an Officer Commanding (OC) of the 31 Rescue Battalion. For his strong and inspirational leadership, he was presented with the NSman of the Year Award in 2021. He cherishes this honour, but true to form, credits those around him for his success. \u201cI am who I am because of them.\u201d FINDING BALANCE Like many young parents, CPT (NS) Saufi knows what it feels like to balance commitments to family, work and National Service. 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